Last weekend Eli and I got to attend a special wedding introduction for the daughter of Eli's colleague, Anthony. I want to share a few details of what these celebrations entail.
Yes, the "Women of Good News" (women's group from our church) all dressed in our matching dresses.
I love it when married couples actually sit together!
A wedding introduction is actually a several day affair. It begins with the groom's family/relatives coming to the bride's family with the dowry (cows, goats, gifts, money etc) and there are meetings for hours even days until the families agree on the marriage. Once the dowry (bride price) has been accepted by the bride's uncles, the next day is a big party to celebrate their official engagement. It's almost like a wedding. First the groom to be parades in with all his friends and brothers/uncles and then the bride and her entourage parade in - dancing to music and making a grand entrance. There are speeches by at least 10 people, coupled with celebratory songs and dancing. At this one, our pastor gave a short message and then they exchanged engagement rings (this was my first time to see rings exchanged) Afterwards there was a special prayer for the couple as they prepare for their marriage and then guests and family members could present their gifts to the happy couple. To do that, we came down the aisle, dancing while carrying the gift and giving it to them. At the end, a grand meal is served. This one was supposed to start at noon but didn't finally begin until almost 5 pm and ended right before 10 pm!
Cutting the ribbon to allow the party to begin!
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